Uncle Henk

May 27, 2010

Yesterday, on his 82nd birthday, my uncle Henk Witteveen was taken out of this life to be with the Lord. Death always comes as a shock, even when it's an elderly person who dies; death is an intruder, not a natural part of life. But Uncle Henk has left behind a difficult life, and in his case, the words of the Apostle Paul in Philippians 1:23 are all the more poignant - for it is far better to depart and to be with Christ.

Uncle Henk lived many years with schizophrenia, a serious and often debilitating mental illness. I only knew him as a "hermit" - he lived on the farm where I grew up, but from the time I was old enough to remember until I was an adult, as far as I know, he never left the farm property. It took a serious fall and some broken bones to get him into the hospital, and he spent the last few years of his life in comfort in an extended care facility.

But even at 82 years old, Uncle Henk was a "covenant child." Although for many years he didn't leave home for any reason, much less to attend church, I have confidence that he is with the Lord, because the Lord is faithful to His promises.

I was never really able to talk with Uncle Henk. I visited him a couple of times in the facility where he was living, but communication on any level was always a challenge When I was young, I was kind of scared of him - he usually had a big white beard, but his personality wasn't as much like Santa as his looks were. And because he spoke a mixture of Dutch and English (and that in a rather unique way), I could never really understand him.

But I look forward to speaking to him when we meet again, because I know his mind, which was so damaged in this life, will be renewed, and I'm certain that he will be experiencing all of the joy that escaped him in this life.


Comments

  • Hetty says:
    May 28, 2010 @ 09:42 — Reply

    If there were a "like" button I would have clicked it! I'll be flying out on Monday morning to be there for the funeral on Tuesday.

  • Anonymous says:
    May 28, 2010 @ 12:49 — Reply

    My condolances with he passing of uncle Henk. I had an aunt and uncle like that they had been greatly damaged as a result of the A flue which killed their father and left their mom with 6 children to raise on her own Uncle could not walk a straight line and there for was called Drunken Wout We loved him. He loved all the children books and would play with our toys forever. So did Tant Weim. She loved us reading our children books to her. Simple children of God. They were teased much, bullied much, but we kids loved them. They both died in a ficility for metal disabled adults Tant Wein was convinced she was a queen and the staff treated her this way too. Always called her Royal Highness She was happy there. Uncle Wout kept every card we send him from canada. Carried them around with him. When I went for a trip he pulled them out of his pocket to show me the 3 I sent him over a period of 6 years. I felt guilty for not sending more. Yes they too were God's creation. They too were His covenant children. Perfect in every way. Gerda Vandenhaak

  • Jim says:
    May 28, 2010 @ 15:14 — Reply

    Thanks for the comments, Hetty and Gerda. And thanks for the story, Gerda. Unto such belongs the kingdom of heaven.



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